First looks are awesome for a lot of reasons but they’re not for everyone and that’s okay. I always respect a couple’s decision not to see each other before the ceremony. I advocate for first looks most of the time but even Brody and I chose not to see each other. However, I will ALWAYS recommend having a moment together before the ceremony. You don’t have to see each other. Maybe this moment looks like reading a letter to each other or praying with each other or maybe it’s as simple as having a conversation about how your morning went and what you ate for breakfast 😅. Regardless of what you do, you’re taking a moment to slow down before the craziness begins and I can guarantee you won’t regrets setting a few minutes aside for it.